If you can see a couple you like and they seem to like you, you might be bold enough to make a move if you do it right. This is what you’ve been waiting for! First, let me assume you’ve been to a club where single men are welcome. Be focused on the end result, not the conversation before you approach someone.
Do not make it your goal to have sex 101. Just talk with the couple. You can chat, flirt, and establish a strong connection. Do not ask what you want to do. Instead, ask about their lives, what they enjoy, and how long they have been together. Then, make an assessment based on the answers. Is it a cuckold couple? Are they newcomers to the scene? Are they married for a long time?
You will be perceived as too busy if you jump into the conversation about sex parties and what you want out of the evening. This approach has worked for me when I was flirting with girls and guys. I have talked to them and shifted the conversation away from a sexual conversation. Let them know that you are easy to talk with and fun, but don’t forget to leave it at that. If the couple wishes to continue the conversation, they will. After talking for a while, excuse yourself and go. Chat with other couples and have fun!
Here Are My Top 12 Tips For Single Men Who Want To Go To Swinger Clubs.
- Do not be too assertive. If you approach a couple new to the scene, or are simply looking to observe, don’t force it.
- Do not drink too much. Swinger clubs often have alcohol. It’s great to relax and have a few drinks, but it is not the right thing to overindulge. Clubs will not tolerate drunken behavior.
- Rejection is a chance to be tolerant. Acceptance is inevitable. Acceptance is better than denying it and moving on.
- Sometimes, I’ve been frightened by single men’s behavior. One guy who attempts to touch or grab me while I’m having sex is not going to be allowed to see my face (yes, this has happened).
- We will approach single guys if we are at a party where we want them to be involved. You can talk to couples but you should be aware that most people are very fussy.
- Do not wait for your husband or boyfriend to light a cigarette before you make a move on the woman. This is creepy and doesn’t work!
- Visit only single men-only clubs. Do your research!
- Do not waste your time talking to single men. If they refuse to talk, then find couples!
- Do not just flirt with the women, but also be respectful of the man. Talk to both men and women, and show respect for him. Understanding that they are there as a couple and their relationship is paramount at the party. Follow their rules. If they require a soft swap, you can either do so or find another couple who is willing to swap.
- Charming and confident are the best qualities. Confidence is a key ingredient to attractive men. Attractive men are those who can charm women and men, and make them feel at ease. A man who is charmed by another man doesn’t necessarily mean that he’s gay, bi or a co-sexual. This simply means that he is charismatic and confident regardless of his sexuality. You are more than a muscular body or a big dick. Your personality is the best way to bring your personality to the party.
- Look at your appearance. Well-dressed men look great. Swinger women can be fussy and I don’t think I need to remind you.
- Swinger parties are not for women who hope to meet other female swingers. This is not a nightclub or dating club. If you are looking for a girl to date, it is not advisable to go to a swinger party.
