Using anal vibrators for the first time can seem a teeny bit scary, and there are definitely some things to keep in mind – both mentally and physically. Often, the reason behind someone having a negative first-time experience is because they dive right in, rather than taking it step-by-step. This will help make your experience as safe, fun – and more importantly as pleasurable as possible. Plus, using anal sex toys can be a great way to prepare for anal sex.
Get Your Brain On Board
The thought of using anal vibrators for the first time can be daunting. There are a lot of taboos, tall tales and a good deal of misinformation that can confuse people, and cause fear. The most important part to making the experience pleasurable is education. Education will empower your experience and allow you to know what to expect, which is a determining factor in how much fun you’ll be able to have. Take some time to research any subject about which you might be nervous or anxious. Remember – it’s not a race. The right pace is the one that works for you.
Try It Alone First
Masturbation is often seen as a key way to understand your body and your preferences so that you feel empowered, and informed when experimenting with a partner. When it comes to anal play, it’s no different. Solo anal play is one of the best, and most comfortable, ways to get started with anal pleasure.
Exploring anal vibrators and any other new anal sex toy with a partner is definitely a lot of fun, and there’s nothing wrong with that. But, starting on your own allows you a safe space for experimentation. You can try out different types of products, attempt different pleasure options and stop and start anytime you want, without needing to navigate the (sometimes complicated) ins and outs of sex with another person.
Your first experience with a new anal sex toy might result in some surprising sensations. Practicing solo gives you the chance to be both the giver and the receiver, which is super helpful when you do eventually add another person to the mix.
Never Forget The Lube
When it comes to any kind of anal play, using lubricant is essential. The anus does not lubricate naturally like the vagina, so you need to help it out a bit. Since anal vibrators or butt plugs can stay in the body for long periods of time, you should always apply enough lubricant to ensure the easy and pleasurable removal of the plug. Always ensure it’s slow and slippery.
