Sex toys can be a daunting thing. Considering how not many people like to talk about their sex toys and preferences openly, there is an acute lack of guides and education for young teens regarding the use of sex toys. This, more often than not, leads to the wrong usage and sometimes even medical emergencies. But since you can’t cover every sex toy to ever exist in one single article, we will be talking about the vibrator in this one. As one of the oldest and most widely used sex toys in the business, vibrators are considered user-friendly. But if you want to maximize the pleasure, here are a few for you.
Set the mood: You take out your luxury vibrator from your secret closet, use it constantly worrying if someone’s listening, and once you are done with it, get back to whatever you were doing. Vibrators aren’t meant to be used like that. The first thing you need to do is set the mood. It might seem absurd to set the mood just for a session with your vibrator, but it can really make the difference. Take a bath, light up some candles, and put on some quality music; plan a date night for yourself. Setting the mood can help you relax your mind and feel less reserved about using a vibrator for the first time.
Make sure your vibrator has the juice: You are in the middle of an intense session with your vibrator, and it dies out. Vibrators run on batteries, and it’s your job to ensure that your vibrator has the juice to complete the session. In a rush to hide the vibrator from prying eyes, many people forget to charge the vibrator and end up disappointed in their next session. As a rule, make sure you charge your vibrator after each session.
Take your time: This is an indisputable law of sex toys. If you are going to be using one, take your time, don’t rush into it. Remember, the primary job of a sex toy is to elongate your experience and give you the best possible experience. When using sex toys, it’s easy to feel anxiety and rush yourself. This can dim the entire experience, and you may not get what you are looking for. Taking your time will help you understand your body better and your likes and dislikes.
Explore your body: Your body is a wonderland, and anyone that tells you it isn’t, has never used sex toys. Remember, there is no such thing as single-purpose sex toys. Vibrators are not just meant for your vagina; they can be used during anal sex or to provide strong stimulation to your nipples. But not everyone likes everything. People have certain likes and dislikes, and you need to figure out what’s yours.
Variation: Vibrators come in different settings, and some settings feel better than others. This ties up with our previous point as to exploring your body. The first thing you should do when you get a vibrator is to try out its different options. If you don’t know what’s in your vibrator, try searching the model number on Google, you will come up with past user experiences and even some recommendations. If you want to get the best out of your vibrator, the only way is to experiment.
Have you ever thought of customizable vibrators: No, we are not joking, and yes, they exist. Some people have trouble finding what they like when confined within the limits of the settings offered by the vibrator. If you are one of those people, try using a customizable vibrator. These allow users to find the setting of their choice.
Add something extra: Vibrators are great, but they are only a part of the fun. If you are going for the maximum pleasure, add something extra to your session. Maybe some lube or gels specifically designed to enhance your pleasure. These enhancers can help you maximize pleasure and even extend the time duration. Just make sure whatever you are using is approved by the relevant authorities and doesn’t harm your body.
Remember the real goal: Many people have this idea that the number one reason to use a vibrator is to get to the big O., But on the contrary, it’s to have a good time. Remember, there is no right or wrong way to have a good time with yourself. It all depends on how you want to use the vibrator to have quality time. Don’t be scared of the new experience, and while it can take some time getting used to the vibrator, it will be worth it in the end.
Keep things clean: If there is only one piece of advice that you are willing to take from this list, then this is it. Keep your vibrator clean. Wash it at regular intervals, and make sure you always wash it before and after using it. You can find special cleaners and detergents designed specifically for washing sex toys. A dirty vibrator can end up giving you more trouble than it’s worth.
Storage: Your vibrators need a home. Instead of throwing your vibrator in some dark corner of the room when it’s not in use, try and create a designated place for storage. It doesn’t have to be in plain sight, but make sure that it’s clean and that your vibrator will not grow mold because it was not dry after you cleaned it.
We hope these tips will help you familiarize yourself with the vibrator. In the end, it falls on how you use the vibrator and what you would like to use for it. Don’t hesitate to experiment and have fun with it!
